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Breastfeeding Blog Hop: Week 22 – Is She Sleeping?

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This post is part of the weekly breastfeeding blog hop, hosted by us, and co-hosted by Life as Wife, Mummy, and Nurse. This week’s topic is, “Funny Breastfeeding Comments/Reactions.”

I know I should have a cute, funny comment or reaction to share. One that would have you rolling on the floor. Or something. Something super cute that Abby did when Lily first nursed in front of her (other than trying to nurse herself?) Or maybe one of my nieces or nephews (because apparently when your baby brother is two and still nursing, it’s amazing that a baby will eat from something other than a bottle.)

Those are great stories in their own rights. And really? I have never really come across someone saying that breastfeeding in public is evil or wrong or worse…weird.

But there is one instance that still stands out and makes me smile. Like, really, really big. Every time I think of it.

We were staying with one of my husband’s college friends and his wife when Abby was 9 months old. I was becoming more comfortable with breastfeeding her in front of others, and I decided to go ahead and nurse her while we were chatting in their living room. I didn’t think anything of it, really, and neither did his wife. And then came the comment, “Look how sweet Abby is, snuggled close to Jen like that.” She shot back, “Um, hon? She’s breastfeeding.”

I can’t wait to see them again in a couple of weeks, especially since they have a son who will be just over a month old by then. And guess what? Yep. She’s breastfeeding. :)

Have you had any funny comments or reactions to breastfeeding? Share them with us by linking up or in the comments below!

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Breastfeeding Blog Hop: Week 16- For the Struggles

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This post is part of the weekly breastfeeding blog hop, hosted by us, and co-hosted by Life as Wife, Mummy, and Nurse. This week’s topic is, “Toddler Nursing Struggles.”

Deciding to nurse your baby can be an interesting study in what is considered appropriate in different social settings. When you’re in the hospital with your newborn, it can seem like either a surge of support or a wave of disappointment, depending on how soon you see the lactation consultant and if the hospital even has one. Then come the comments: how long you should nurse, why your baby is crying, what you should do to stop it, and even, “just one session with formula isn’t going to hurt!” Depending on your personal nursing goals, it can seem like an uphill battle, all over this little baby.

Finally, some of the smoke clears. You have set your goals, decided what is reasonable for your family, and most of those close to you have accepted it. That is, until your baby hits that magical age. For some bystanders, it’s 6 months. For others, it’s “when they start asking for it.” And still for others, seeing a toddler nurse is just weird. You’re thankful that you have had several months without comments because, baby, you’re going to need that arsenal.

By this point, your sweet little newborn has grown. Whether you have a crawling explorer or a toddler confident in his surroundings but not his own abilities, the situation arises. Maybe it’s your sweet sitter deciding to bite you. Or your adorable toddler is still nursing despite the comments from others (behind your back or to your face.) Maybe it’s even your own feelings towards your darling gymnast, feelings you may not want to admit. One comment from you about how it’s difficult or how it isn’t what you pictured and someone is bound to tell you that it’s fine to give up now. After all, your sweet little one really doesn’t need it anymore.

Oh, my dear, what do you do? Because, really, you just wanted some reassurance that your feelings are valid and that you still are on the right track. But your vulnerability has made room for an attack, whether it’s meant to be one or not.

You weigh your decision carefully, considering your baby’s feelings as well as your own. Biting isn’t an acceptable way to end a breastfeeding session, no matter how adorable a look your baby gives you afterwards, so you plan how you will act the next time you are bitten. Maybe you aren’t ready to wean your toddler and neither is he, so you keep nursing despite the comments. And if you are ready to wean, you plan out how you will work with your baby to do just that. And those feelings of angst? Are they really telling you something about your breastfeeding relationship or are they truly fleeting?

And let me tell you, you are doing a wonderful job. No matter what your ultimate decision is, no matter how many times something negative is said or how many people you have to ignore. When your decision is based on the relationship you two have, it’s going to be the best one.

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What has been your biggest struggle with nursing an older baby or a toddler? What do you wish you would have known when dealing with it?

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Breastfeeding Blog Hop: Week 15- Fiddlesticks and Gymnastics

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This post is part of the weekly breastfeeding blog hop, hosted by us, and co-hosted by Life as Wife, Mummy, and Nurse. This week’s topic is, “Raising the Future Gymnast.”

If you have been able to breastfeed beyond six months, whether it’s exclusively or not, you probably know what I’m talking about already. Something happens around this time that greatly changes the breastfeeding relationship. At first, you may notice that your baby is becoming easily distracted. Maybe they like playing with your hair, necklace, the other breast, the nipple, your hair…or all of them at once.

Keeping baby entertained can become interesting, but it’s doable. There are necklaces specifically made for breastfeeding babies in mind, like these by KangaCare or the lovely Jellystone necklaces, which are not only cute for mom but also safe for baby. Or, if the baby is like my older daughter, she will figure out how to grab your hair and twirl it. (This drove me crazy, by the way, and it still does. Thankfully her hair is long enough now that she is grabbing mine less these days!)

Once you feel that you’ve gotten passed this stage, the real fun begins: baby begins gymnurstics! Lily is still in the early stages, which is not much more than grabbing her foot and stretching it out. However, soon enough I know that she will begin turning around, obviously trying to see how elastic my breast really is. One day, she will try standing, kneeling, bending, sitting up, and all sorts of really fun moves! She has already started trying to type on the keyboard when I’m on the computer, too. I can tell that she’s going to be a very interesting nursling!

In all fairness, Abby was more laid back when she nursed. She often nursed to sleep (or close to it) even as a toddler. Lily, on the other hand, seems to gain energy from nursing. I love how very different my girls are, even in this regard. So what’s in store for my future gymnast? I have no idea, but I’ll be thankful if she decides to leave my collarbone alone!

Does your baby seem to have a future career as a gymnast? Share your stories on gymnastic training sessions or “fiddling” in the comments!

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