Breastfeeding Blog Hop: Mother, May I?

Breastfeeeding Blog Hop

This post is part of the weekly breastfeeding blog hop, hosted by The Slacker Mom, and co-hosted by The Gnome’s Mom and Happiness Redefined. This week we are discussing if we would ask permission to nurse in public.

Would I ask permission to nurse in public? My short answer is no.

No, I would not ask permission to nurse in a restaurant. In a park. In the store.

No, I would not ask permission to nurse in church, at a family gathering, or funeral (though I may be more aware of others and would probably find a quiet place to nurse.)

No, I would not ask permission to nurse.

Permission implies that the action is not vital. That it can be postponed or delayed. A baby cannot wait for later, and neither can mom without affecting her supply, especially in the first few months. While I may choose to be as inconspicuous as possible, I will not bring more attention to the situation by asking for permission.

I am interested, however, to see what happens the first time that Lily needs to nurse during a church service. ;)

Would you ask permission to nurse in public? Why or why not?

 

 

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About Jeniffer

Jeniffer is planning to homeschool her children and is enjoying teachable moments with her 1-year-old and 1-month-old daughter. She loves sharing about her parenting journey, from breastfeeding to cloth diapering to pregnancy and beyond!

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  • Amy t

    I use the nursing moms room at church so I don’t interfere with other people during worship. But our room has video so I can still participate in the service. My daughter is 9 months old and always needs to nurse during church

    • Jeniffer

      I wish we had one! But since I’m the only mom of someone under 2, I don’t see that happening. :( I plan on sitting in the back, though. Hopefully no one will make a fuss. My other option is to sit in the nursery every Sunday.

  • Jenny

    Our church has a room for nursing mother’s to view the service. It’s great! The room is behind the sanctuary and has a large one way window so people can’t see in, but we can see the service. There are multiple gliders and a changing table. The room is pretty dark too. It’s great for a sleeping baby! It’s also great because you can still be a part of church and hear the sermon when your baby is crying. Plus, it stops the awkwardness for others and isn’t a distraction during church. The only downside is not being able to sit with my husband. We only used it for the 1st 6 weeks (until N was old enough to go to the nursery).

    • Jeniffer

      Oh my goodness! That’s awesome! I wish we had something like that. For me, it will either be sitting in the back or in the nursery. Which means that I may as well just work in the nursery. :/

  • Bethany

    I also go to a small church with only 2 under the age of 2 and I don’t want to sit in the nursery every Sunday so I just nurse in the back of the church and try be discrete (although my son is a loud nurser!). I’ve never asked permission and no one has ever said anything, plus, God made us to do this so I figure the safest place to nurse should be in church!

    • Jeniffer

      Bethany, it definitely should be! I figure that as long as I don’t make too big a deal of it, no one else will either.

  • http://www.lovenbugs.com Emily @ Love{&}Bugs

    I nursed during church all the time. It kept the baby quiet!

    • Jeniffer

      Emily, I’m hoping that it will do the same for Lily! Lol!

  • http://mylifeaworkinprogress.wordpress.com/ Elisebet F

    Permission also means someone has a say in the matter, and they don’t. Nor do I apologize. For what do I have to apologize? Feeding my child?