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Worship Wednesday: When I Have No Words

Today is going to be a hard day. One that I’m sure will be etched in my heart forever. We will be attending visitation for the toddler son of my husband’s co-worker, who passed away Sunday. This is the family I asked for prayer for in my post Monday.

It’s hard to find words. My prayers right now are mostly made up of, “Oh, God…. Oh, God… Oh, Lord, please hold them.

For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us. For the creation waits with eager longing for the revealing of the sons of God. For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of him who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be set free from its bondage to corruption and obtain the freedom of the glory of the children of God. For we know that the whole creation has been groaning together in the pains of childbirth until now. And not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. For in this hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience. Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified.

What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things? Who shall bring any charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies. Who is to condemn? Christ Jesus is the one who died–more than that, who was raised–who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? As it is written, “For your sake we are being killed all the day long; we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8: 18-39

When I can’t find the words, I’m thankful that he hears my heart, and that the Spirit Himself intercedes on my behalf.

I don’t understand any part of this, but I am trying to run to Him. To cry out to Him for this hurting family. To trust Him with my own.

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Please join me in praying for Matt, Meagan, and their remaining three children. Especially for comfort during the visitations this afternoon, tomorrow, and the funeral Friday morning.

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Angela’s Amber Review and Giveaway

Both of the Sisters have been dealing with teething grumps for several months now. Neither of us had tried amber before, so we were excited to get the chance to try Angela’s Amber teething necklaces for our poor babes.

What is an amber necklace?

I love this explanation from Angela’s Etsy shop:

Baltic amber is not a stone, but a fossilized tree resin. When baltic amber is worn on the skin, the skin’s warmth releases trace amounts of healing oils from the amber. These oils contain succinic acid and are absorbed into the skin. A natural analgesic, amber helps remedy restlessness, irritability, sleep trouble and pain. A perfect alternative to teething drugs, medication or gels. (Great for adults, too!)

Who is Angela?

Most people consider Angela a “crunchy” Momma. She is always happy to find new ways to care for her family in a gentler and safer way. She discovered Baltic amber teething necklaces through a local Smart Mommy group and purchased her first amber teething necklace when her daughter was four months old. She was so impressed she decided to start making these herself.

Angela is a longtime crafter, and loves making amber teething necklaces.
Each item is hand-made by Angela and held to the strictest quality standards. All of her amber comes directly from the Baltic region, and she performs her own authenticity tests (several of them!) on all the amber she receives. After trying a number of different cords, she decided on 100% silk as the highest quality choice. Her silk is the best available and comes from Germany. She carefully hand-knots between each bead for safety, durability, and beauty.

Angela does custom orders to accommodate any customer big or small. She loves making “mama” and “papa” jewelry in addition to her large collection of baby teething necklaces.

Melissa’s Thoughts:

When I first heard about amber teething necklaces, I thought, “Well that’s great for people with girls. But I can’t put my boys in one!” I was also unsure whether they would really make a difference in pain.

After having the chance to try out an Angela’s Amber necklace, I’m completely won over ;) I think that just a cloth diaper and teething necklace is just about the most adorable thing a baby can wear, boy or girl!

See how cute?!

 

I am in love with the necklace I was able to choose to review. The amber contains pieces of moss, making them varying shades of green, as opposed to the typical lighter color you see.

Unfortunately, my husband still isn’t a huge fan of his boy going out in public in a necklace ;) It is true that in our area its not something that you typically see, so people probably aren’t sure what to make of it. I’ve compromised by slipping it into my pocket if we go out as a family, and I just put it back on later.

Which brings me to my next point. I do feel like Nehemiah is significantly more fussy if I leave the necklace off for very long. He is cutting several teeth right now, including his one-year molars, so even with the amber we have seen some serious gnawing and grumpiness, but it is so much better when he is wearing amber than it is when he is not.

So, my new opinion? Amber is cute and it works! Although this is my first amber necklace, I’ve been very impressed with it. I loved the fact it came with a little bag and a card that told the benefits of amber and gave instructions on how to care for it. Perfect for those gifting this at a baby shower or somewhere similar!

Love this! Information and instructions are on the other side. (Please disregard the crease - my kids liked the card too!)

 

Nehemiah has worn his necklace almost non-stop since we got it. He has crawled, slipped, been picked up by his siblings, and just generally lived the rough-and-tumble life of a fourth child. Despite all that, the necklace has never come unclasped, or shown any signs of wear and tear. It’s obvious that it was made with care, and with great attention to detail!

Jeniffer’s Thoughts:

When I first started looking into natural parenting, amber necklaces kept coming up. I thought they were cute, but I didn’t see how they would help. I read something about negative energy being repelled because of where the amber comes from, but I wasn’t convinced that this was the real story. When I read that the resin is absorbed by the body, I realized that it could work. And then I read reviews saying it did work. I had to try one!

Stylin in the doctor's office!

 

So I was definitely excited to review an amber necklace! See, Abby cut her first tooth without much trouble…but every tooth since has been difficult (to say the least!) She has drooled since she was a month old, not to mention the irritability, sleeplessness, and even slight fever. She gnawed on everything. All. The. Time. Mama was done.

But then the amber necklace came in. At first, I didn’t notice a marked difference. Her rash on her eyelid started going down some, but it had done that before. Since she wasn’t exactly teething, it was hard to tell how much the necklace was working. I took it off one night for her bath and forgot to put it back on. In the morning, the rash on her eyelid was worse than it had been in days, and she was much crankier than she had been. I put the necklace back on, and the rash got better. She calmed down. And she cut her last front tooth without drooling or gnawing on everything! In fact, I hardly noticed it coming in! Now, I really wish I would have had this necklace before her first tooth came in.

She is still irritable some days (especially when she doesn’t get her nap out), but it is less than what it had been. She is teething again, but I’m pretty sure she’s starting molars now, and those are another story altogether. She’s gnawing, upset, sometimes grumpy, but I’ve seen her without the necklace. It would be worse without than with! Of course, it doesn’t hurt one bit that I get compliments everywhere I go on her pretty necklace!

Wearing her amber necklace on Valentine's Day (and every day!)

 

Buy It:

You can purchase a variety of amber necklaces, either for yourself or your sweet baby, at Angela’s Amber Etsy shop. The necklaces range in price from $25.99 for most of the baby necklaces up to $59.99 for a few of the beautiful momma necklaces.

Win It:

One reader will win a honey and tea baroque Baltic amber teething necklace in the length of their choice – 10.5 to 12.5″. Enter using the rafflecopter form below. Comments on this post are welcome, but will not be counted as entries.

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Please Pray

Tonight I’m supposed to be writing a normal post, but I can’t stop crying.

This evening we received word that a co-worker of my husband lost his toddler son to drowning. Please pray for this family as they grieve, especially as the father was in Europe at the time of the accident and is trying to get back as soon as possible. The family has three other young children who will be grieving the loss of their brother. I can not begin to imagine the grief they are experiencing.

I’m signing off to pray and to love on my babies…. Please surround this family with your prayers.

Update: The father was able to get a flight early this morning and is scheduled to be back by 1pm. Please pray that all of his travel details will work out smoothly so that he can be back with his family.

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Schooling Saturday: We are “Rowing” Again!

I’m happy to report we are all finally well again. For the moment! I admit I cringe every time we go to a public place wondering if we will pick up something else, but that’s a whole different post ;)

The highlight of our school week for me is that we are “rowing” again! If you don’t know what I’m talking about (and you probably don’t!), “rowing” refers to the curriculum Five in a Row. Five in a Row is a great unit study curriculum that uses high quality children’s books to teach language arts, social studies, geography, science, and art. You read the book every day for five days, and each day you use part of the story to springboard learning in a related area.

We’ve always loved Five in a Row. We started out rowing a few titles when Makaylah was preschool age, and then used it as our main curriculum when she officially started kindergarten. Our first book was Madeline, and both my girls still remember things we learned about during that week!

When our new co-op wanted to do a story hour for the younger age group, Five in a Row came to mind right away! Although I knew  I wouldn’t be able to offer the benefits of repeated reading to the group, I was  excited about sharing the wonderful stories and activities in my Five in a Row manual.

I chose Make Way for Ducklings, by Robert McCloskey, as our first book.

I love the sweetness of this story about Mr. and Mrs. Mallard looking around Boston for a good place to raise their family. We learned about the Caldecott Medal, Boston, and ducks, and hopefully all in a way that will stick in their young minds!

This week I will be doing some of the other activities from the manual here at home, along with reading the book every day. I look forward to the wonderful memories I know we will make!

If you are interested in finding out more about Five in a Row, be sure to check out their website. They have very active forums frequented by wonderful Five in a Row veteran moms who are always happy to answer questions, and by Steve and Jane Lambert, the creators of Five in a Row!

Do I have any fellow “rowers” reading here? I’d love to hear from you in the comments!


 

 

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Pregnancy Update: 17 Weeks!

Well, I’m nearly 17 weeks now. That counts, right? (Actually, according to my doc’s date, I turned 17 weeks today. I use the later date because I’m pretty sure this baby will decide on its own when it wants to be born!)

Today’s checkup rated the baby’s heartbeat at 151 bpm, and the baby is a few days behind the growth charts. Since Abby tended to be a few days/weeks ahead, I’m definitely not concerned about a couple of days. Everything looks good, and I haven’t had any problems so far! I’m also showing now! Yay! My bump is still fairly small, but it’s there!

Movement:

I started feeling pressure about a week or so ago. I definitely felt at least one flip, too. I’ve also felt little flutters here and there, and Abby has been kicked, even if she doesn’t feel it yet.This pregnancy has taken longer to feel movement, but they happen more often. Or maybe it just feels that way because I’m chasing Abby all the time…

Symptoms:

I’m not dealing with heartburn at all anymore (WHAT??), and I definitely have a more sensitive sniffer. Last time, I was so congested for most of the pregnancy that I couldn’t smell anything anyway. Another change is that I still get a little nauseous every now and then. It’s not bad, but smells can drive me batty! Since I’m finally getting some sleep (thank goodness for night weaning!), I’m not dealing with insomnia or middle-of-the-night hunger. I did deal with some heartburn-induced insomnia last time, but I never did want to eat after I went to sleep. We’ll see if that changes. :)

Cravings:

I still prefer red meats (pepperoni, ham, roast, burgers, steak…YUM!), but I’m also still loving my fruits. I ate apples like every. day. for a week. And of course salty snacks are great for keeping me going. I wasn’t a fan of sugary snacks with Abby until the very last bit, and it seems to be going that way again. I’d rather eat pizza than a donut.

Gender Guesses??

We did find out the sex of the baby today, and we’re pretty sure we know what we’re getting into. BUT there is that slight chance that it changes…and I’m currently enjoying keeping secrets from people. So guess away! I think I might tell you guys…eventually. ;)

Honestly, I’m still amazed at how quickly this pregnancy is going! I guess with a soon-to-be-walking toddler, it’s easy to watch the days (and weeks!) slip by unnoticed. With Abby, time seemed to crawl, but I have a feeling that I’ll turn around one day and be holding a newborn again!

What was the biggest surprise with your pregnancy(ies)? If you’ve had more than one, what was the biggest change? And share your gender guesses!! :D

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Breastfeeding Blog Hop: First Time Jitters, Fourth Time Around

Breastfeeeding Blog Hop

This post is part of the weekly breastfeeding blog hop, hosted by The Slacker Mom, and co-hosted by The Gnome’s Mom and Happiness Redefined. This week’s topic is First Time Jitters: Leaving Baby With Someone Else.

I remember when my first child was born. It was absolute torture leaving her with someone else! I worried the whole time we were apart, especially since she breastfed exclusively, and after the first few months, refused all bottles and pacifiers. A few well-meaning friends and families laughed knowingly and assured me I would feel differently with the next baby.

My current nursling is number four, twelve months old, and I can still pretty much count on one hand the times I’ve left him with someone other than my husband (and even those times are pretty rare!). The longest we’ve been apart is the 4.5 hours in September when my awesome man fulfilled a dream of mine by taking me to see Les Miserables.

Suffice it to say, I know a lot about jitters! Personally, I feel like particularly in the first year, mom and baby are a unit that its best to keep together :) Even so, there are times where we need or want to be apart from our nurslings for a little while.

So what’s a momma to do?

Start Off Slow

It’s generally not a good idea to make your first separation from your exclusively breastfed baby a long one. That can be traumatic for both of you! If you can start with the occasional short errand – a quick run to the store to grab some eggs, while baby stays home with daddy – it can make the whole process go more smoothly. From there you can work up to dinner out while a trusted sitter watches baby (Or maybe just coffee… With your phone at the ready! ;) ). And maybe you’ll be one of those brave souls who will occasionally go out for hours at a time baby-less. I’m not sure what that’s like ;)

Bring Supplies

A crying baby is no fun for anyone, least of all the baby! If nursing is going well and you feel comfortable pumping, bringing some breastmilk for baby can certainly help. My son took a bottle the first time I offered it to him, at eight months old! If baby is older, it can also be offered in a sippy cup. For a young baby, if they refuse the bottle, a medicine dropper can also be tried. Some babies respond well to soothing with pacifiers, or love being worn in a sling or baby carrier.

Timing is Everything

If you have a choice, try to schedule your first time away from baby at a time when he is usually in a good mood. Baby melts down every day around 5pm? You might want to start with a lunch date ;) If your baby eats on a predictable schedule (mine never have!) take advantage of that and aim to be gone in between feedings. If your baby doesn’t have a schedule, at least try to get a nice solid feeding in right before you leave.

Just Breathe

It’s easy to spend that entire first outing completely wrapped up in concerns over whether the baby is ok, crying, eating… And all those thoughts can cause your milk to let-down, which really helps the situation, let me tell you! I need this advice as much as the next mom – try to just breathe and focus on the positive of your time away, instead of worrying the entire time!

Finally, people have a lot of opinions on when the right time is to leave baby for the first time. Some people are sure to think you should do it sooner than you want, and some are sure to think you should never do it at all! Ultimately, you know yourself and your baby. If you aren’t ready to leave your little one, then that is absolutely fine! If you are needing or wanting to get out without baby for a bit, then don’t feel guilty! Start off slow, bring supplies, time it right, and don’t forget to enjoy yourself!

 

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Worship Wednesday: Confident

For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.” Philippians 1:6 (NASB)

I’ve had a rough time the past few days. There are things that I’m dealing with and feelings that are surfacing, things that I have hidden and tried to keep buried for far too long.

While I rarely talk about what my pastor said on Sunday (suffice it to say that it usually isn’t, um, relevant), but the verse he used during the morning service was just what I needed to hear. Because while I’m in the middle of this mess, it’s easy to think that I’ll never get out. That I’ll never be free from it. That it will always be there.

But this? All of this is just part of the work God is doing in my life to perfect it.

One day, I’m not sure when, I’ll be able to look back and see the work He did. I’ll be able to thank Him for what happened because it will have shaped me. He isn’t finished with me yet. He isn’t done. And I’m so thankful that He isn’t.

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Little Bee Co. Bee Changed Review and Giveaway

A few months ago Jeniffer had the chance to review for The Little Bee Co. (you can read her review here), and we were excited to be able to host a giveaway for one of these great diapers. I have been excitedly waiting for my turn since then, and it’s finally here!

If you aren’t familiar with The Little Bee Co., I want to share this company’s amazing vision with you. “Bee Changed, and Change the World.” For every diaper purchased, reviewed, or won in a giveaway, The Little Bee Co. donates a diaper to an orphan in need. How awesome is that? In addition to providing a high quality diaper, their passion is to help children in need and bring awareness to the orphan crisis in our world today.

So far the company has done diaper drops in Uganda, Ethiopia, China, and Jamaica, and more are being planned for Haiti, Guatemala, Honduras, and Cambodia. You can view a beautiful video and pictures from their first diaper drop at their website here. You should go watch it now. I’ll wait ;)

I knew from the first time I heard about this company that I loved their heart. But after having the chance to use and test their product, I know that I can recommend it for it’s own sake too!

I reviewed the Bee Changed Micro Suede Diaper. This is a one-size pocket diaper, that comes with two microfiber inserts.


 

One of the inserts is a full-size insert that has snaps to adjust the size. The second insert is a contoured newborn insert. The two inserts can be used individually, or snapped together for greater absorbency.

I also love that the full size insert has a tag - makes sorting inserts so much easier!

 

I love the fact that the full-size insert can be snapped down! It helps so much with a clean, smooth fit.

This is the insert snapped down all the way.

 

The Bee Changed diapers only come in snap closures, which are personally my favorite! They also have cross-over snaps for tiny waists, and which also allow you to “wrap and go” when storing messy diapers while out and about.

Diaper wrapped up!

 

The Bee Changed diaper also features front elastic to help contain messes

You can see the front elastic. There is also elastic in the back around the pocket opening.

 

Little Bee diapers come in nine beautiful colors, each representing a country and focus on children in need. You can read more about what each color represents here. I chose African Rain.

My husband has been blessed to participate in several mission trips to assist children in Africa. For these children water is a luxury. During the dry season it is common for children to walk miles to find water from the closest well. I can only imagine their prayers for rain. To represent these children: African Rain {A vibrant aqua}

This diaper is such a beautiful color, and it definitely brings water to mind! Looking at it is a pleasure, and a wonderful reminder to pray for those who don’t have access to clean water like we do.

The Bee Changed diaper is hands down one of my favorite diapers. I love the trim fit! This diaper is also very absorbent, even with just one insert, and we never experienced any daytime leaks. We did try it a few times overnight without success, but my son is a very heavy-wetter, and most pockets don’t cut it for him overnight. I think that with both inserts this diaper would work great at nighttime for most babies.

One thing I do want to point out is that this diaper is definitely smaller than most of my other one-size diapers. If you have a petite child who doesn’t fit well in most one-size diapers, I think these would be perfect for you! However, if you have an older toddler who is still in diapers, these may not work. I only tried it on my 3.5 year old once, and even on the largest rise and waist settings, it barely went on and left really bad red marks. My 1 year old has a much stockier build then his brother, and is currently on the last rise setting. He still has plenty of room in the waist though, so I’m hopeful it will fit for awhile to come!

I love the fit around the legs!

 

Personally, I love these diapers so much I would love to buy several more, especially since I know that my money is helping to support a wonderful mission!

Buy It:

You can purchase a Bee Changed Micro-Suede Diaper for $19.95 here. You can also choose hemp/organic cotton as your insert instead of microfiber for an additional $3.50. The Little Bee Co. also makes the Bee Changed Bamboo Diaper for $21.95, and Bitty Bee Changed newborn diapers for $14.95.

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When Momma Gets Sick…

I apologize for missing the Schooling Saturday post this week. I shared last week that my 6 year old was sick. My 1 year old  followed suit later in the week, with breathing trouble and a double ear infection. Then a few days later I relapsed again, and came down with a severe cold for the third time in three weeks. The other two times I’ve felt much better after two days, but I’m having a much harder time kicking it this time. I’ve been eating homemade chicken soup, taking large doses of echinacea, but I still feel really rough today.

I know a big part of the reason I can’t get well is because I’m not getting the sleep I need. With a 1 year old that still wakes frequently at night to nurse and a 3 year old that has always been a bad sleeper, I’m chronically exhausted.

Confession? At times like this, as much as I love my children, and believe in the way I parent, it’s hard not to get frustrated and feel burned out. I just want to take some strong meds and sleep for 8 solid hours, but that’s not happening any time soon!

How do you take care of yourself while sick and breastfeeding? Any remedies you recommend?

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The Night I Cracked: A Tale of Night Weaning

I wasn’t planning on night weaning when I did. I had decided to try it, start it, and just never stuck to it. I really wanted to do Dr. Jay Gordon’s method, but I was having trouble sticking to it. I wouldn’t wake up enough to put her back to sleep awake and ended up nursing instead. The crying was too much, and I felt so guilty for keeping my hard-working husband up at night. I couldn’t bear the thought of my daughter crying so much…and us all losing so much sleep.

And then I cracked. Last Wednesday night/Thursday morning, she woke up. I was not in the mood to deal with her in bed with me for the rest of the night. I’ve been needing my space more and more lately, and I snapped. Not only was she going to night wean, she was getting out of our bed, too. I put her in the crib we have beside our bed…that she never slept in. Not well, anyway. And not all night, either. That made her mad. Especially when Mama wasn’t letting her in bed with her and making her stay in the crib. Like I said, this wasn’t well thought out. She cried, screamed, and wailed on and off for about 2-3 hours before falling asleep with my hand against her head. She woke up at 6:30 the next morning, after the 7 hours that I had set aside for the no-nursing rule, and nursed to sleep. We both got some much-needed rest, and I wondered if what I was doing was working at all.

The next night, she woke up again. And it was almost 2 hours before her Daddy realized that she had a dirty diaper that needed changing!! I felt awful, but she was asleep again withing 30 minutes. This time, she slept until around 6:30 again…and immediately wanted to get in bed and nurse to sleep. Again, I let her, wondering if we would ever have a full night of sleep again!

Friday night, she slept. Until 4 AM! I had slept enough that I was easily able to handle her. I picked her up and held her while bouncing her to sleep. It worked perfectly! Within 15 minutes, I was back asleep in my bed. She didn’t wake up again until 8! Both my husband and I woke up sore, not having slept that long without waking up in months.

I thought for sure that it wasn’t over, but the past 2 nights have been the same. She’ll wake up for a few minutes, I’ll pat her back, and she’s off to sleep again. But now? I’m the one staying up at night. Honestly, I think I’ve gotten so used to waking up with her that I don’t know what to do with myself after sleeping for so long! I’m so thankful that I snapped, that I stuck to my guns, because I’m finally getting what this pregnant mama needs: some sleep!

Have you tried night weaning? What worked or didn’t work for you?

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